To My Baby On the Day of His First Steps

To My Baby On the Day of His First Steps

You've taken your first steps. Your first steps all on your own! As your mother, I will always remember this milestone in your life. I will write it down in a little book and tell your grandparents with pride: "He did it! He is walking all on his own!"

But you don't know any of this right now. Sure, you recognize the joy on my face and in my voice and we exchange great, big smiles; but, what you don't know yet is that this new skill of yours will take you to places you cannot even comprehend in that sweet little head of yours. 

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While They're Sleeping...

While They're Sleeping...

When they’re sleeping, nothing else matters but the sound of them breathing...softly and ever-so-sweetly. 

When they’re sleeping, we choose to forget the trials of the day, forgive ourselves for the things we could have done better, and try to let our stresses go.

When they’re sleeping, we get down on our knees and thank God for choosing us to be their mamas. 

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18 Lessons From My Dad (That We All Can Learn From)

18 Lessons From My Dad (That We All Can Learn From)

1.     If you ever have a gut feeling that something is wrong with a person you are with or a situation you are in, trust it the first time. I have a very close friend that my dad adores greatly.  One day years ago I started to tell him about a particularly terrible situation of betrayal that she was in.  I started with, “She had a feeling…” and he cut me off there.  He said, “Honey, if you ever feel like something is not right, you need to trust that feeling the first time you’re aware of it and do something about it immediately.  Don’t wait around for things to get worse…because they will.”  It was a reminder that my own intuition is like a built-in compass that will always point me to my “North” if I am paying attention.

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May His Heart Always Spread and Receive Love

May His Heart Always Spread and Receive Love

May his hair always blow in the wind and his wavy wisps always point him in the right direction. 

May his head always be a sponge for new knowledge, perspective, and ideas piqued by his own interests and curiosity. 

May his eyes always lock with others who love the soul behind his piercing hazel hue, and may they always see the beauty in what surrounds him. 

May his ears always receive messages of peace and endearment, and may they always remain open to listen to the words, woes, ways, and will of others. 

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Dear Mom, I Still Need You

Dear Mom, I Still Need You

It is our beautiful relationship, my connection with you now, as an adult, that also gives me hope. I know now that if I do what you did, if I love my children with all of my heart, there is a pretty good chance that when they’re adults, they will still need me, too . . . the way I need you.

It will be a different kind of “need” than the kind it is now, but it will be an important, bittersweet, and beautiful kind of need, for certain.


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